Popular Nigerian singer Simisola Bolatito Kosoko, better known by her stage name ‘Simi’, has advised parents to give their girls financial independence and tutor them instead of relying on others for money. I called out.
In a recent video posted on social media, the songwriter appealed to parents to educate their girl children to be non-dependent.
One mother said parents must ensure that their girls are not dependent on men, emphasizing the security that comes with independence.
She also urged parents who pray for their daughters to marry wealthy men to avoid such practices.
“When your daughters grow up, don’t make them think that they can rely on someone else or that they don’t have to take care of themselves.
“When someone pampers you, it’s not because you can’t pamper yourself.
“You’re spoiling them as much as they're spoiling you. Let them know you’re standing strong. There’s a sense of security in knowing you’ve got yourself.” ” she said.
Simi also said that women’s economic power lies in being able to protect themselves, protect themselves and recognize themselves as complete human beings.
“Parents should raise their daughters to be self-sufficient and not think that when they grow up, they just need someone to take care of them.
“Being independent gives you a sense of security. A woman’s financial power lies in being able to protect herself and confidently admit that she is a full human being. Let them know you are standing strong.” Please,” she said.
“You deserve good things. You need to occupy space,” she added.
She called on those in positions to give opportunities to deserving women.
“I admit that I’m telling this story from a position of privilege. I grew up with people who believed in me, who had my back, who encouraged me and who helped me get from here to here. There was a chance.
“But there are many women who have had to do less work: less love, less faith, less kindness, less opportunity.
“And that’s where we as a society have to step in. If you’re in a position to give a deserving woman a chance, please give her a chance.”
She further urges men to support their partners, saying, “If your female friend, girlfriend, or wife is thriving, don’t be afraid of that. Support is sexy.” .
